All she needs is to be felt

The meaning of life is to know yourself. When you know yourself, you know the other. When you know the other you understand yourself. To know yourself means you can grasp an understanding of life. You get a glimpse or even a full picture of what it means to be a tree, the wind or the pavement.

To know yourself means you go beyond the everyday life to dive deep within and uncover the meaning of you – of life – to return to the every day seemingly the same and really completely different.

This might sound so beautiful in written form and it is a beautiful experience, to say the least, but when you’re still stuck in the superficial layer of life it seems as if that deeper meaning is farther away than ever. The superficial layer can have a strong hold on you. Fear grasps your heart and holds it tightly in her grip because bills need to be paid, dinner has to be made, work needs to be done, groceries need to be bought, the car needs to be cleaned, children need to be raised, finances need to be done, arrangements need to be made and so on….

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Empathize your way out of the Matrix

To me, the Matrix is the illusion we create for ourselves. The illusion that we are the person we embody on this earth, we are the jobs we have, and we are the people we spend our lives with. That what you feel is associated with the people in your life, the things that you do and the experiences you have. That you need to do something in order to receive something. That there’s something missing in your life. That you don’t have the necessary knowledge and skills to live your life.

Living an illusionary life usually goes with (unconscious) feelings of frustration, loneliness, emptiness, and longing. But we don’t see these emotions as what they truly are. Instead, we try to forget we feel that way by losing ourselves in food and entertainment. But these emotions are your way out. They are telling you that you’re living a life not in line with your true self.

And there’s a way out of this Matrix. There’s a simple (and at the same time challenging) way out of the Matrix that I will tell you about in this article. And as I always do, I’ll use my personal example to illustrate my point.

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Core beliefs are the biggest force behind your affirmations.

core beliefs shape your life

Core beliefs are the biggest force behind your affirmations

You are creating your life every second of your day.

It took me some time to really get this. I used to think that I could create my dream life with Visualizations and Affirmations. And you can of course. But it’s not just during these exercises or rituals that you create your life. With Visualizations and Affirmations, you consciously choose for a specific desired outcome that makes you feel good NOW. But when you stop visualizing and doing your affirmations and you go about your day, you’re creating your life as well. And you’re probably doing that on an unconscious level.

And that which has a stronger and more consistent emotional vibration (the visualizations and affirmations or going about your daily life), creates your life.

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Why change only comes by touching your core beliefs.

I see it a lot around me. Friends and clients who go about their lives being guided by beliefs they have about themselves and the world. Those beliefs shape their desires, their choices and their life. And when they struggle with something – their relationship, their job, motherhood, or other things – they try to fix that on a level different than where the problem arises.

And this is because they don’t see the true core belief with which they’re creating their lives. They call in the help of coaches, experts, friends and they all help in the best way they can. But many of them lose themselves in the illusion of superficial day-to-day associations. Meaning that the beliefs with which my friends and clients shape their lives are too unconscious to easily uncover. You have to see through the illusion of (non-verbal) behavior, associations, words, and actions and look beyond to what’s underneath.

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The crucial moment I chose to NOT follow my soul’s calling. And what happened next.

Do you know those moments where Life gives you a huge sign that you should do something (or not do something)? Where you can see an orchestrated play in front of your eyes for the benefit of your soul’s calling? Where it feels like Life is giving you a hand in choosing what’s right, or a mirror for you to look in and choose something different?

And how many times did you ignore those signs?

I ignored a huuuge sign a few years ago. And that has shaped my life in a big way.

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